Testimonials

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[Anaya Castell from United Kingdom]

I first experienced Nityama during a telephone session in May 2007 with Roxanna Minnona of Dancing the Divine. At the time I was somewhat sceptical as to whether I would feel anything, given the incredible distance between UK & USA, but as he asked me to breathe with him I felt his energy enter into me; it was so pure, so clear, so light that it felt safe to open up and receive him. As I did so, the flow of energy moving through me became stronger, unhooking and unravelling the places where I was caught up into my stuff on the inside. It was a beautiful, ecstatic, excruciating and wholly worthwhile experience. So profound in fact that I jumped on the next plane to visit him in USA.

When I first met Nityama I was greeted by a lovely warm smile and an ALL embracing hug, unforgettable because as he held me I felt as though I was melting completely into LOVE. Nityama asked me in what way he could help me, and I communicated three areas of need; firstly, I wanted to let go of my dysfunctional relationship pattern, which despite having done a tremendous amount of work on myself stubbornly remained, secondly, I wanted to be a clear channel through which Divine Will could manifest my life vision, and I thirdly, I wanted to experience the highest potential of sex and sexual relating.

I realise now that I have received everything I asked for. Rather miraculously, not least because I didn't actually think it was possible, my dysfunctional relationship pattern simply fell away, my inner channel is now very clear and I am moving forward with the manifestation of my life vision. And, although the highest potential of sex and sexual relating is an ever expanding experience into the infinite, I have experienced and understood the higher potential.

From the perspective I now hold it saddens me greatly that we have been sold such a lie about sex. That the creative act that brought us all to the planet, indeed, that creates ALL of life, has been dumbed down and twisted away from its true potential, thus keeping us ignorant of our true nature. I feel immense gratitude to Nityama for the work that he does, with such grace, such compassion, such love. This work is so very needed by EVERYONE right now! Thank you Nityama for the support, wisdom, and love that you have shown me, you have changed my perspective and therefore my experience of life completely and I cannot recommend you and the work that you do highly enough.

[Pamela Stavish]

I was just thinking about Nityama and typed his name into google and there he was bigger than life. I met Nityama about 15 years ago at a Love Without Limits Seminar. He was helping Deborah with the class. I had my back to the door but I could feel his energy when he entered the room. I knew he was someone special and he recognize my energy as well. He is the first man that I ever had an orgasm with from across the room.
After the class we had a great evening together laughing and playing in this energy. He taught me that when I share that energy with a man I am shareing it with everyman that ever was and will be. I am so grateful there are men like him on the planet. He even did a healing for my girlfriend Jane within the next few days. She had just lost her father and was in a great deal of pain which he helped her process rather quickly. I am so happy he has continued on his path and is helping the planet heal. My spirit, grace and heart are with you always. Keep up the good work!
Namaste & Love,
Pamela

[K.L. from Melbourne, Australia]

As a well respected middle aged widow on a path to finding meaning and fill a void within, I was totally out of my normal comfort zone as I embarked on a series of holistic experiences that raised incredible energy within me. The suggestion was then put to me by a trusted female guru, that a video conference for a group of women to engage with a Tantric Mongoose called Nityama could for me be worthwhile and disperse the energy.

When you lose the sole love of your life, as I have done and feel as bereft as I have felt... nothing shakes you and I was up for the challenge. I had been a faithful wife and this was really "living on the edge" now... finally I was being a bit of a risk taker!!. I had to feel something somehow ..Life was empty and I felt very sad and so alone!

...I really had no idea what to expect and then nothing did... insufficient numbers and it was cancelled. So I emailed Sasha, Nityama's assistant and converted the lost opportunity to 3 phone sessions. I actually felt relieved... this was much safer, and I would be very anonymous... besides nothing much could happen via a phone and it might be interesting... something to include in my memoirs.
How wrong was I!!!

My phone calls from Nityama have certainly been much, much more than interesting.... This man is incredible...full of fun. He has the friendliest voice, a sick sense of humour and we have shared some very funny stories. He has berated me for being "stingy"... in not being free with sharing my sexuality with men. He has challenged much of what I thought was the way to be.Yet I have not felt humiliated or embarassed finding it simply like connecting with a close friend and condfidante. Then each time after we had talked for a while he would suddenly say to me "Now breathe" ... As I breathed deeply and slowly I have been transported into the most sensuous wondrous places with him.. resulting in special total body orgasmic waves that I love. I remembered how much fun feeling sexual with a man was and felt transported back to happy times I had shared, always willingly and very enthusiastically, with the man I had loved and adored for 30 years. Each phone session brought deeper sensations and experiences than the previous time and I have been loved so tenderly by this beautiful man that I have wept, moaned, sighed, whimpered and laughed as our bodies merged... our energies pulsating in unison... gaining in intensity, lessening then rising again and again ( yet we were thousands of kilometers apart)

Nityama, I know you are there for 100's of women ...but each phone session I have felt so special! You have been gentle with my broken spirit and lifted me in every way. I feel very humbled to have been fortunate to have had you in my life It has been so easy to surrender to your voice and I have felt safely held by you in every moment. In our most recent time...My breath took me rapidly away to higher places than ever before ... my body pulsated ... energy radiated throughout every molecule of my being and out and around me...(.no 11 minute quickie here!!!!.).. time stood still and we were on line well past the hour and a bit allocated!

Apart from being physically with a man... can higher states be reached? I have been truly blessed with having this interim time and I have been healed.. how fortunate will be the man who shares time with me in the near future... I tingle in anticipation.

With endless love and gratitude........K.L.

[John Lewis from Michigan]

It's hard to put my experience into words, but it's even harder not to. I just have to write about my experience and tell others how amazing it was. Still, how to describe this workshop? All of the labels I could put on it would indicate something that is beyond the understanding of most people. I certainly wouldn't have been able to understand it before I went. When I originally saw a video of one of his demonstrations, I didn't understand what he was doing. When I saw the demo in Chicago, new possibilities opened up for me. Not only was the demo mind-blowing, but Nityama's presence is enough to change the feeling in the room. I began to understand as I felt different and more grounded just by being around him.

In the workshop, I witnessed miracle after miracle, healing after healing. Tension and blocks that I have had for years were released through the bodywork with Sasha and from Nityama himself as he directly opened up some energy blockages. The learning experiences I had were direct and experiential. Nityama uses words to teach, but the most powerful learning I received came from getting a "felt sense" of myself a way that I never had.

When first I learned about Nityama and his philosophy on sex and relationships, I thought that his work was focused on the benefiting women. After all, they are the ones who get to experience these incredible orgasms and we men are supposed to stay strong. I figured that it might only really benefit my girlfriend who I brought with me. After the weekend it was clear that I had manhood all wrong, and my girlfriend and I have never been happier in our relationship.

One final note is that both Sasha and Nityama give incredible hugs. They are wonderful people and I hope they continue to share their gifts with people in the United States. When is the next retreat?

[Jay from New Jersey]

Let me preface this by saying that I had no idea what to expect from my table session. Here’s how it all started: A close friend of mine whose opinion I value dragged me out to San Francisco so Sasha could work on me. I was definitely feeling a little nervous going in, but upon meeting Sasha for the first time I was immediately put at ease. She spoke to me for over 30 min to find out what I expected from the session and to answer all my questions.

I told her what I wanted to work on specifically but she informed me that her goal was just to fill my body full of energy and get that energy flowing through me. She explained to me that the energy knows what to do and the healing will take place without having to consciously direct anything.

This sounded good to me and I told her that I was ready to begin. She left the room to give me time to undress and lay down upon the massage table. For the first twenty minutes or so, she moved her hand back and forth across my body without touching me, and instructed me how to properly breathe for the session. She explained that she was filling my body with energy and that I should relax and breathe.

After this part was over, she began to touch various acupressure points on my body in order to open up certain channels to allow the energy to flow. Unfortunately, I still wasn’t feeling much of anything and was a little disappointed. But I tried to remain present and breathe as instructed.

After my channels started to open, I felt my emotions begin to stir inside me. All of a sudden, I began crying for no apparent reason. I was a little embarrassed to be weeping in front of this beautiful woman, but she smiled and told me that it was part of the process and that I should let all my emotions come out without trying to hold back.

She continued to talk to me about “getting in touch with my real self” and explained that I had been wearing a social mask my entire life and that I was completely unaware of who I really was deep down. Each assumption she made about me was entirely true and I was blown away by her level of insight.

The whole time she spoke to me, I was in a very emotional state and felt a mix of feelings from sadness and regret to anger and rage. Sasha gently coaxed me through these periods by reminding me to breathe while whispering soothing words into my ears.

She continued to open up more channels and instructed me to breathe more forcefully. I threw myself into this as best I could (it was difficult because I was very tired at this point) but all of a sudden, a felt a tremendous rush of energy moving through my body.

At first, I thought it might all be in my mind because I was feeling a little lightheaded from the breathing, but over the next few minutes, the sensations became more and more intense. It literally felt like both of my arms were shaking violently, completely beyond my control. I mentioned this to Sasha and she told me to lift up my arms and look at them – they were completely still. “It’s the energy inside your body,” she said. “The feeling of movement you have is internal.” This absolutely floored me because I had never felt anything like that in my life.

Next, I noticed that my hands were taking on a strange position which I had no control over – my first two fingers on each hand became extended, while my ring and little finger curled in against my palm. This came as another huge shock because I saw one of her demo subjects (in a video I had watched) assume the exact same hand positions when he was on the table.

Before the session, Sasha explained that this happens because of the way the energy moves through your body’s meridians. But regardless of the explanation, it was happening to me, right now. I always had difficulty feeling energy in my body, but for the first time, the feelings were real and unmistakable. All my skepticism went out the window as I realized that Sasha was the real deal.

I was totally blown away by what I was experiencing and soon, a sense of joy began to wash over my body. I’m not sure how much longer Sasha kept me in this state because I lost all sense of time, but before I knew it, she said I was ready for the “intimate” part of the session. I will leave out the details for discretion’s sake, but the experience was simply mind-blowing.

When we finished up, I looked at my watch and discovered that almost three hours had gone by. It felt like an hour at the most which was really interesting. Sasha left the room so I could dress and then she joined me again and answered the rest of my questions before I left. She spent a lot of extra time with me and it was apparent she was truly concerned with making sure I got everything I needed from the experience.

Before I left, she gave me some suggestions as well as some exercises to practice once I got back home. She told me that this was just the beginning, and now it was up to me to continue the journey to find my inner self. She also said that I could call her anytime new questions arose and she would be happy to answer them for me. I left her studio feeling a mix of sensations and emotions that I knew would take me some time to process.

It has now been about three weeks since my session and I have never felt more peaceful and “alive” in my entire life. The session is definitely not a miracle cure for your problems, because I still feel myself slipping back to my old thoughts and negative emotions, but just being aware of this process gives me the power to consciously stop this from happening.

To give you a specific example of what this session did for me, I have always had a problem with co-dependency my whole life. When I don’t have a girl in my life, I feel a severe sense of longing and loneliness which prompts me to chase women I wouldn’t normally be interested in just so I could have SOMEBODY around me. But what’s funny is that, since I’ve been home, I’ve had no desire to go out and chase women like I usually do. I’ve been very content just being alone with myself and studying/meditating. This is definitely a result of the session and my only concern is that this mental state will not last and I will find myself slipping back into my old habits. Time will tell, I guess.

So to wrap this up, I whole heartedly recommend Sasha to anyone who is struggling with personal problems or just wants an incredibly moving spiritual experience. To say the least, it is guaranteed to be life changing and I am very grateful to have met this wonderful, loving and insightful human being.

-Jay

[Tricia]

In August 2001 I went to see a funny little man in a house on a hill. And the me that went in never came out.

When I first met Nityama, I wore a blindfold as a substitute for truth, tied my shoes together when I walked, and frequently chased my own tale. In other words, I was pretty “normal”.

But Nityama patiently held me to myself, until I had no place else to go, but back to myself.

No one has ever ignited me to feel bliss, to feel myself, or even just to feel, as deeply as this man did. And no one has ever challenged my ass and called me out from deceiving myself or holding back in one way or another, on such deep levels, as this man did.

Some of my “stuff” instantly shattered, some peeled off, and some just fell away, barely noticed. In the process, the blindfold was ripped off and burned, and I guess the shoes just untied themselves.

Gently, lovingly, and challengingly, Nityama escorted me to a place within me that I hadn’t been to in over 40 years, and yet when I arrived, I instantly recognized it as home.

When I felt myself drop back into myself and melt out across the room and across time and across all boundaries, it was obvious in that moment that I was worth the beauty, the richness, and the depth of this work. In fact we are all worth it, because it’s what we are. We’ve just strayed a little, gotten away from ourselves, and lost our way back.

Nityama brought me back home. His work is brilliant, and bold, and is truly love in action.

To you Nityama, much appreciation and much love for everything, and I mean e v e r y thing.

I still run sometimes. But at least now I usually recognize the ass in front of me as my own, so I can catch myself, and hopefully giggle a little. And if I do stray from home, thanks to you I can still see the porch light.

Tricia

[Ce Ce]

My session with Nityama was euphoric. I am a writer and after my session my writing flowed effortlessly with much clarity.

I read about sexual energy being connected to the creative energy. I am now experiencing the merging of the two.

I am more confident in being a Goddess and I feel more comfortable with my femininity.

I am glowing and I feel my sense of purpose stronger. My session gave me the courage to relese toxic people and places from my life. I feel clear.

My body felt sensations that I never imagined it was capable of having. I feel alive.

The energy healing helped to open my heart chakra and balance out my aura.

I was able to get a lot from my session because I felt safe with Nityama. I feel my spirit has met his before.

This new energy is like a drug that I don't want to ever stop using. My body buzzes with energy. When I get tired I meditate and call on Nityama's energy to fill me up. To my surprise I am able to recall this awesome feeling over and over again.

I am interested in communicating with Nityama's clients who are willing to share their experiences. I am curious to know if others experienced what I felt. It would be nice to chat with people who have expanded their conscious. You may e-mail me at uranusruler@aol.com

Thanks again Nityama for being the brave soul that you are. Thanks for sharing your gift with the world.

Ce Ce

[Wendy]

What can I say about a man who dedictes his life to the opening of men and women to themselves. It is a beautiful gift that Nityama offers to the world and I am so blessed to have received his offerings. Personally I have experienced video conferencing and telephone conversations/ connections with Nityama.He is a delight to work with, an angel yet he delivers the truth with love that seves your soul and journey. I have found myself deeply opened and challenged by this work. It has taken me to a different level of myself, to taste the deliciousness and beauty of myself like never before. I have also been blessed with my partner attending a video session which has opened him up to the man I have been waiting for, so I can now sit beautifully in my feminine and be met by my man. Our lovemaking has been totally transmuted to levels of bliss I thought not possible of myself or him or us. We are so much more connected thru open hearts and love due to this work. I am eternally grateful and fully receptive to more, to open and to receive more of the deliciuos woman I am and thought I was not - beautiful. Thank you Nityama, angel.

[Lilamani]

Hi there Sasha, can you please change my testimony to this?:

With grace, presence, humor, and deep understanding Nityama allowed me to see the resentments and control I was running to the masculine in myself and with men, starting with, and especially with my father, and how this was keeping me at a distance from much of the femininity that resides in me. Also restricting the quality and depth of relating I was capable of having with men, and equally women for that matter. Seeing these controls and fears has allowed for the letting go of these things.
Nityama has held a space for me to gently feel deeper and explore feminine qualities, and what it is to be a woman. Although this is a continual unfoldment, the difference it has made in life thus far is enormous. I feel in an easier flow with myself, life and others. The places Nityama has led me to also serve as a reference point for when I do fall back into some old pattern.

Nityama, deep gratitude for the countless gifts.

[Mukee]

Since meeting a few years ago, Nityama catalyzed within me a whole new experience of the pleasure and relaxation of being. This has helped me to surrender to infinite orgasmic worlds of my natural openness, expansion, and receptivity as a woman in all arenas of my life. You are such a sweet heart Nityama.
Namaste,
Mukee, Phoenix, AZ

[John]

Thank you Nityama for sharing your wisdom and presence which has helped me readjust my attitude and understanding towards the masculine and feminine. For too long I have misunderstood the masculine, always being in awe of the feminine, with very little respect and love for the masculine part of existence. I feel my perspective has changed, and I have gained a deeper respect and understanding of what I can offer the world as a being with a predominant masculine essence. Nityama has also provided me with some key understandings about men and women which has dispelled some of the pain I had in relating. Thank you for the light to help me become more available, more relevant, more strong, more in balance, more knowledgeable and more myself for the world. Deep respect and love.

[Brian]

Nityama showed me a door to another reality, a way of being, and seeing.
Exploring that realm, I continually find deeper, richer experiences, tastes and flavours. It is a joy to share in this realm. It is one of my favourite places to connect, to give, and to receive.
The food in this land is sweet, deeply nurturing, challenging, but above all, is the succulence of existence.
May this website bring more friends into this land to play and share. There is no competition here. There is mutual recognition and honour, support and love.
Om Shanti

[Leslie]

It is very hard to describe what it is like working with Nityama, it is much easier to describe what I have gained from being in touch with this beautiful man. I have learned that sex is not about performing, or trying to please a man. I have learned about truly being "present" and receptive and what a difference it is to live this way. In the moment, just being receptive and really getting into my feminimity is what my work with Nityama has enabled me to do. I learned the importance of breath and integrity which has enabled me to discover my own truth and live in alignment with that. That is really just one of the major gems that I have received as a result of my time with this tantric mongoose. BTW,you have not had a real hug until you've had a hug from Nityama...Best..